The Law of the Garbage Truck

This particular "law" has been making the rounds on the internet for sometime now and it's interesting that I got to read it again yesterday after finding a seemingly nasty comment on my email inbox.

The nasty reaction was on a comment I made after viewing a Filipino folk dance on Youtube. This was about a month ago. My comment on Youtube was a little more of an observation.

Mistaken Identity

With the rains of Typhoons Ondoy and Pepeng over, DH quickly took the task of washing the big pile of laundry to take advantage of the sunshine today.

No, we don't have househelp or a laundry woman for our clothes. In fact we haven't had any househelp since 2001. Now that she's stopped working, DH has no more plans of getting one.

She can be quite gungho with household chores especially laundry. Here, she wears her favorite work hat.

Typhoon Ondoy's Blackout

We were so very lucky that we weren't as affected as the rest of Metro Manila specifically Cainta, Marikina and Pasig. The worst we got last Saturday was having to deal with the super strong rains that managed to get into our bay windows.

The roads fronting our neighbor mall was also flooded shin-deep. That we saw when we took Che to the sporting goods store for their cheerleading uniforms.

We lost power in the afternoon just when I was about to power on my piano. We were braced for the outage and so we prepared candles and batteries. DH had the foresight to prepare dinner a bit earlier to take advantage of the late afternoon daylight.

Piano Room

So sorry for the lack of updates lately. There have been some crises that had to be attended to.

Anyway, with typhoons Labuyo and Maring out, the sun's finally shining and so I took some pics at home inside the newly cleaned yellow room downstairs. The Yellow Room is the only room downstairs although we all sleep in the rooms upstairs.

The reason it was added in the house design is for a practical purpose. Well, DH and I will eventually become old (and arthritis may one day catch up on us) that staying downstairs in this room may be the more practical and easiest arrangement.

The room already has the facilities for a phone line, aircon outlets, closests, etc. :)

But for now, we're also calling it the Piano Room and below is the new setup for the piano. The old piano setup at our old house may be seen here.

Scooter Man

When we were having our house built, I didn't expect our family hall would be used for a cornucopia of activities. These activities would include tv-watching, working on the computer, ironing (while tv-watching), etc.

Buking!


And that seems to be how Renz reacted in the photo above. Nowadays, with the vacation, you'd know why the kids are in front of the computer - to look at new computer games!

Itlog Ti Abuos

Last week, my mother-in-law came from her home province of Ilocos Norte and brought this, among the usual pasalubongs.

And "usual", this is not. These are ant eggs and this dish is considered a delicacy among Ilocanos. Locally, these giant ants are called "hantik" while Ilocanos call them "buos" or "abuos". Hey, did you know that the Thais also have a dish made of the giant ants? Anyway this number of eggs already costs around Php200.


The Magical Refrigerator

Ahhhhhh.... Time for a facelift. THIS blog's facelift, that is. Do you like the new layout and graphics? Thanx Lene, for the tip!

Occasionally (well, except for Karen who does it almost everyday), the kids would leave notes on the refrigerator on things they'd like to remind or some requests. Here's Karen's notes.

Bilateral Sawing

While the car's out for mega repairs, I took the opportunity to cut the remaining (some rotting) thick branches in the empty garage.

Some of them were 5 to 6 feet in length. But with the trusty 14 TPI hacksaw, I was ready. Here's a pic with some of the branches cut already.


Why Did You Marry Him or Her?

Without anything else to write (sorry, my swims are infrequent), this entry is about Sandra's homework in Religion. The question was to ask each of the parents, why did you marry mom/dad.

Here are DH's answers:
  1. "Dahil mahal ko siya" I thought the question was about qualities so this shouldn't have been in.
  2. "Matalino"
  3. "Masinop" Actually, this was her polite way of saying kuripot.
  4. "Magaling kumanta" But then she realized I wasn't singing when she met me, so she said to scratch it off.

Here are my answers:
  1. "Aba, sexy na, beauty pa!" DH couldn't help smirking on this one and I don't think the teacher would like that.
  2. "Magaling sa mga gawaing bahay: magluto, mamalengke, pagaasikaso." I had to qualify that statement by saying that she can be so self-reliant on many things.
  3. "Mapagaruga (caring/nurturing), maalalahanin (thoughtful), masipag, etc..." I could've gone on and on when she said "Tama na, napapaiyak na ako..."

And just the other night, Renz was especially talkative. I guessed he was tired, ready to sleep but was just yakking himself awake. :) Here's the tail-end of our conversation in bed:

Renz: Alam ko po kung bakit ako ang pinakabata sa mga magpi-pinsan!
Me: Ow? O, bakit pala?
Renz: Kasi po, late na nag-asawa si mama.
Me: Eh, bakit naman late na nag-asawa si mama mo?
Renz: Kasi po hinintay ka niya eh. (I'm already half-laughing at this point)
Me: Talaga? Bakit naman niya ako hinintay?
Renz: Kasi po mahal ka niya, eh? (and I thought he'd be saying "naghintay po siya ng pogi")



Simbang Gabi 2007

We wanted to complete the Simbang Gabi series but Sandra had exams so we went starting on the 20th only when all the school parties were done.

The church really looks good. The good mayor Aldrin San Pedro lent the St. Peregrine Shrine some parols which were really nice.

Here's the inside of the church with the mass ready to start. I was at the choir loft when I took this pic. Karen turned her head to see where I was.


Djok Taym
We were very early at the Church. We thought the mass starts at 7pm. Turns out coz it was Sunday, mass started at 7:30pm. Renz noticed that the mass materials weren't ready yet: the chalice, the wine and water dispensers.

Renz: Papa, bakit wala pa yung lalagyan?
Me: Anong lalagyan?
Renz: Yung inumin?
Me: Inumin ng?
Renz: Yung inumin ng pari... Yung... Trophy niya?

I suppose he was referring to the priest's chalice which looks like a Trophy Cup!



All Saint's Day '07

We left at almost 6:30am and at the SLEX going northbound to Pampanga. Traffic was horrendous in the opposite lanes, going to the South! This was in the area of Alabang, Sucat and Bicutan.

Think we luckily missed the traffic? Ha! Heavy traffic started at SM City and it's been that way all the way going to the EDSA turn to A.Bonifacio.

We finally reached Pampanga at 9:45am. But then we were targetting 8:30am like on a normal Sunday. So yes, it was THAT bad.

Dance Contest Judge

Today, I was asked by Era and Mimi to judge the Yawza Finals Dance Contest. Yawza is the syllabic reverse of "sayaw" which is the local word for dance. I was completely taken by surprise.

The Joys of a 5-Year Old - Shower in the Rain

Yesterday I washed the car as it's been dirty for weeks. Renz decided to help and so I let him. I got up the ladder to clean the roof while he passed to me the loaded up sponges.

I later figured the guy just wants to get wet with the washing and since it started to rain, he was happy to help out. And so I just told him to ditch the shirt and he asked ate Dada for new set of clothes, towels and soap.

Che's First Groceries

When Che was about to leave for Math Review today, she was was asked by DH today to buy crab meat. Che scoffed at the idea and was protesting.

Well, DH reminded her that at Grade 5, DH was already commuting by jeepney to go to Paco market. After being told that it's only at Save More in Festival Mall, Che relented.

Che just had to write it down though. And soon, the grocery list became longer. Here's Che with her grocery bag after getting home. Renz always wants to be in the pics.



Djok Taym
It was a special Mass (Our Lady of Sorrows?). And it was a con-celebrated mass. One assistant was carrying that incense thing and was swinging it everywhere: to the altar to the people, to the priests.

Incense smoke was everywhere. Finally, the assistant was swinging it to the bible at the lectern, just before the Gospel. Renz noticed the smoke.

Renz:Sinisiga po nila?
DH:(half laughing) Anong sinisiga? Bine-bless muna nila, bago basahin.
Renz:Ah... Para pong 'magic spell'?



100-Meter Freestyle may be Regular Now

For a couple of sessions now (Friday was last), I've been doing 3 or 4 100's and although it's still difficult to do , I know I'm getting better at it.

It is also becoming boring at times. Boring in the sense that I become impatient to finish the 100. Nearing the 50 mark, I sometimes just close my eyes for a couple of strokes just to deaden/mask out the effort. Although it works for a few seconds, it also somehow emphasizes the bore.

I'm still thinking of ways to make the workout itself stimulating and enjoyable DURING the workout. There are ways to put variety but that is in between workouts - like the flys, the sidestrokes, etc.

Sore Eyes

I didn't swim last Monday coz I had to finish the csv's for the dataloaders. Che has had sore eyes since Friday night and I've contracted it Monday morning. I was sent home by the Clinic for a 3-day SL. I'm taking Tobradex. It's the same medz the kids are using. Coz of the eyepain, there wasn't much I could do. I couldn't even read for very long. The eyes would water and I had to give them a rest and then sleep. So for this vacation, I didn't do any apt work even though there were screens to sand and paint. I figure the dust from the sanding would aggravate my eyes' condition as they're still red.

So I settled for light stuff like brief reading (I've read the highbeam articles), watching videos from the 12-in-one DVD cartoons with Renz and Sandra. Both of them have been absent from school for sore eyes too. Sandra didn't have school last Tues, June19 coz of Laguna day. I also cleaned my swim radio for accumulated dirt. I reviewed some of the old swim videos and sorted some old karaoke videos. It's all basically light work.

Dyok Taym!
Last Sunday, Renz was all up and bright to greet me: "Happy Mother's Day!" Uhm, it was Father's Day.

Today's Karen's 13th Birthday! Happy Birthday Karns!


Some of the highlights of my reading the highbeam articles:

ON WHY SWIM?
African-Americans are realizing that swimming is a total body workout that improves cardiovascular condition as well as works and tones muscles simultaneously. And for those looking to slim down and tone, swimming provides a more efficient exercise than lifting weights by attacking every muscle in different ways. "When you lift, you're lifting on a two-dimensional plane because you're just pushing or pulling," Davis says. "The results will plateau. Swimming is on a three-dimensional plane. You're pushing and pulling, but you're attacking the muscle in different angles at different points. No two strokes are the same."
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Swimming is probably the all-around healthiest exercise option. Whether you are old or young, physically fit or not, swimming can help you feel and look better.

In fact, swimming a minimum of three times a week for 20 to 30 minutes each time can improve the condition of your heart, arteries and lungs, lower your blood pressure and reduce your percentage of unwanted body fat. It also works all your major muscle groups, unlike other options which tone only your legs or arms.

For New Year's fitness resolutions or for just trying to work off the holiday bulge, swimming is the quickest way to tone up and slim down. Water provides 12 times as much resistance as air and swimming laps for one hour burns more calories than aerobics, running, bicycling, walking, or weightlifting.
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Swimming is the perfect exercise for lifetime fitness. No other activity provides so many health benefits with so few dangers. The older athlete is especially concerned about staying healthy because consistency is essential for a fitness program to be effective, and avoiding injury is the key to consistency. Water is a wonderfully forgiving medium. Gone is the jarring of running. Absent are the dangers of cycling. Dogs, cars, angry people, potholes, curbs, inclement weather, and even air pollution are potential injury-causing factors that can be avoided in the environment most often encountered by the fitness swimmer. The swimming pool is a safe environment by design.
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Athletes weary of battering their bodies with running and high-impact aerobics are taking the plunge into swimming. The reason? Swimming has the lowest injury rate of any vigorous sport.

"One of the things that a lot of people like about swimming is it doesn't have the impact on the joints that running does. So, it's very beneficial for people who have bad knees and bad backs,'' says Dave Markus, health and fitness director at the Southwest YMCA in Saratoga, Calif.

ON SACRIFICES:
By and large, kids don't regret what they have missed," Mr. Murphy says. "They say they got so much on the other side. They traveled, made friends in other countries. It is the sacrifices that help make them the special person they become.

ON OPEN WATER:
When you conquer your fears, ocean swimming can be a glorious experience. "I really, really like it," says Bolster, who after years of pool training recently headed to the open waters. "Once you get into a comfortable rhythm, it can be very Zen-like out there." Wantagh's Nancy Tischler agrees. Although she, too, grew up with a dad who swam the sea, she stayed put in the pool. "Most people worry about sharks and fish," she said. "I was just afraid of being over my head." About two years ago, she took the plunge - and now swims in the ocean almost every summer morning. "My life has begun again," she said with a laugh. "It just feels so free out there."

ON AGE AND IMPROVEMENT:
"If you want to improve your swimming you have to swim five times a week and vary your strokes," said Geer. "You need someone to critique you because you can't see what you're doing."

He attributes his speed to mastery of a wide range of strokes, which gives him greater endurance and strength. Right now he's concentrating on the breast stroke.

"You can't defeat age, but you can master activities," said Geer. "You learn how to propel yourself in the water, how to better feel the glide and slide through the water. It's like dancing well."
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Searfoss shows her daughters, who range in age from 2 to 9, the importance of maintaining a healthy lifestyle. "It's important for them to see exercise as a part of life," she said. "It's good to see what you can do and maintain when you're older."
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The reason some 70-year-old swimmers can outperform teenagers is because swimming is such a technical sport. Proper stroke mechanics and efficiency can compensate for the superior strength and endurance of youth. This makes swimming the ideal sport for the older athlete who wants to enjoy the thrills of improvement in a physical activity. Past the age of 50, the well-trained athlete is at a physical stage where further training will not produce a big change in performance. Improved technique, however, will extract every bit of physical potential that's available. We've seen numerous swimmers who have been able to match performances from their youth through a combination of careful training and better stroke mechanics. The results for swimmers who pick up the sport late in life are even more dramatic. As they learn how to swim more efficiently, they do lifetime bests every time they dive into the pool. It's a great feeling for them, and their coaches, too!

Of course swimming isn't going to transform someone from the "old-old" age group into a teenager. It can, however, certainly help the 90-year-old live a fuller life. There are some losses of physical capacity over which we have no control. Nevertheless, there are many more that readily respond to increased use by becoming stronger, more resilient, and more youthful in function. We have to take the bad with the good and be glad we can win at least some of the battles against aging, even if we eventually will lose the war. It's essential that we never give up. We may have to make a few compromises along the way, but we must never capitulate.

ON AGING CONSIDERATIONS:
The adaptational feature of the leisure repertoire concept also underscores the emphasis on competence. If, as Deci and Ryan state, perceived competence and self-determination are innate needs that continue throughout life, then deprivation of opportunities for perceived competence and self-determination may result in significant psychological problems for the individual (e.g., Seligman, 1975). As people age, the number of genuine leisure choices is eroded by a series of age related constraints (e.g., illness, diminished financial resources, fear of crime, lack of transportation, etc.). No matter how free the individual is to choose what to do during free-time, if the person cannot act on a choice, then it is not really a choice at all. Therefore, though we acknowledge that self-determination is essential to intrinsically motivated leisure activities, we likewise contend that perceptions of competence regulate the array of activities the individual has to choose from.

Adaptation to aging is partly a matter of maintaining or enhancing competence, thereby retaining self-determination through a repertoire of leisure activities (Mobily, et al., 1991). If the aged individual can maintain or even enlarge the number of (competently performed) activities in his or her leisure repertoire, then age related constraints are less likely to eliminate all leisure options. For example, competent participation in swimming may be substituted (Iso-Ahola, 1986) for competent participation in jogging that was surrendered because of osteoporosis. Hence, the older person with more viable activity choices in free time (i.e., a larger leisure repertoire of competently performed activities) has the psychological advantage.

ON ADULT LEARNERS:
"It's so important for everyone to learn to swim no matter what age," Ms. Harvey says. "We encourage people to learn to swim at a very young age, but it's important for adults to learn to swim if they didn't when they were younger."

"It takes old-fashioned practice, practice, practice," Mr. Strange says. "Many people don't want to embarrass themselves in lessons. They don't want to admit they can't swim, so they don't try. The only embarrassment is not trying. The ones who try are the heroes."
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These are the calculations you make when you are a swimmer who cannot really swim, someone who might have passed diving exams, perhaps even saved people from drowning - in certain conditions. But you don't breathe properly when you swim, you don't relax in the water, and your first thought on starting out is of how far you will have to go, and how soon you will be out of the water again.

I was tired of being one of these incompetents, only half able to enjoy a holiday by the sea, and only half sure that, the next time, I could save someone's life or my own. I went to find a teacher, more than 35 years after I had first swum a width of the municipal baths. And the more I told friends and colleagues about what I was doing, the more I uncovered people who felt the same stigma, who had grown up suffering their failing in silence.

ON TECHNIQUE:
The changes, such as slowing your kick or recovering your arm elbow-up and close to your body, may seem small, but incorporating them into your swimming can make an enormous difference. That's because swimming, like golf and skiing, is a technique sport.

Because water is a thousand times denser than air, "a swimmer with poor technique expends three or four times the energy to cover the same distance. That means that a slight woman with a well-honed stroke that barely ripples the surface can outdistance the muscular fellow kicking and beating the water to a froth.

ON THE USE OF SUITS:
"Proprioception, that is, muscle awareness, is the most important element that a suit lends to our bodies. The suit presses against the skin in such a way as to give an athlete the feeling of being stronger and more in control. The suit creates compression that allows the nervous system to provide better feedback on where the body is positioned. Soccer players, for example, create a proprioceptive effect when they tape their feet. The close-fitting sleeves worn by baseball players and the tight suits of ballet dancers perform likewise."

ON STAYING COMMITTED:
Many beginning swimmers soon quit because they find their swim workout boring. If your workout lacks variety and is the same every time, your enthusiasm may also take a nose dive. You can make swimming more interesting and get more out of your workouts by varying the distance, stroke, and intensity of your swims and by working on different parts of your body at different times.

Another way to vary your workout is to change strokes. Instead of swimming freestyle (crawl) or breast-stroke, try alternating strokes between laps. By working on all four strokes--breastroke, backstroke, butterfly, and freestyle--you not only make the workout more fun, but you also work different sets of muscles.

ON PONDERINGS:
But Americans' love affair with high-calorie foods - and a warm television to eat them with - still prevails.

"We've become a spectator nation. We are happy to watch the million-dollar athlete on television, but we don't want to do anything ourselves," Tom McMillan, the former basketball star and congressman and now co-chairman of the President's Council on Physical Fitness, complained last year.

Sixty-six percent of Americans regularly watch TV while eating dinner, says TV-Free America, a nonprofit group in Washington, D.C. that organizes national "TV-turnoff" weeks each year.
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Not all those who claim the title "ocean swimmer" actually are. In some surveys, Laughlin suspects, "people who go to the beach two or three times, take a dip and come out again after five minutes, or go in waist deep - they respond as having 'gone swimming.'"

In contrast, "Someone who can swim a quarter mile, 100 yards from shore - that's truly ocean swimming, and there are not many who can do that. If you look out 100 yards from shore, you're not going to see many people out there, swimming parallel to the beach for some distance."

Southmall Time

We were supposed to go to Pampanga today but for some unknown reasons, it was a little bad timing. Anyway, we went to the 3-day sale at Southmall instead. We figured it was a welcome treat/ break for the 2 munsci kids after their presentations. The kids got new shoes. I bought a t-shirt for me and a new pair of green swim shorts. They're technically not trunks, but good enough for Php 198 (at 10% off).



Dyok-time:

"Anak ng May-ari"
It was quite late when we got out of SM. Dinner meant eating at Jollibee at the SLEX gas station. When we got there, we easily got a table and sat myself down. The others ordered and went off to wash hands. I was gazing the south expressway and didn't mind the noise at the playground behind me. The noise at my back became louder and I said to myself wow, those bratty kids must feel "quite at home". The yelling and shouting went on and I was just a bit annoyed.

Soon the food came and everybody's washed their hands and sat at the table. As we were eating, I said to Tita Gay "Siguro nakauwi na rin yung batang maingay kanina ano? Aba'y parang anak yata ng may-ari eh!" To which Tita Gay said "Hindi, kumakain na siya. Ayan sa tabi mo, o!", pointing at Renz. Yikes!

Once More with 'Say'

We planned on going to Pampanga and so we left at around 8am. Yeah, them movies tired the kids out! We've always passed by the Total gas station at San Simon in the past but this time, we decided for a look-see. DH went to Tropical Hut to buy their yummy burger and spaghetti. The rest hanged out by the wishing well/falls and had fun throwing coins. Just not sure if they wished at all.



Here's Karen giving Sandra a spin.


In Pampanga we sang lots of songs on the Extreme Magic Sing Videoke machine. Here's Dada "The Gardener" on the mic. DH is busy looking for songs - for Sandra to sing, that is.


Later, Ninong Jess came with Say-Say. She's gained a few pounds.


Here's a shot of the two taken two years ago (Feb.7, 2005) jokingly dubbed as "The Beauty and the Driver". Notice their attire and you'll understand.


In this shot, Karen appears to be wearing some kind of a headdress with the metal grills behind hear.


Renz finds something really funny while Tita Divine coaches Say-Say on a game.


Here's them playing hide-and-seek. Here they're hiding - like they can actually hide behind some bonsai plants.


The two played hide-and-seek with the rest of the kids. Here's them playing 'it'.


Singing "Ako ay may Lobo" to the tune of "Atin Cu Pung Singsing".


Djok Taym!
(In the kitchen, lola brings out a piece of cake)
Lola: Renz, gusto mo nito?
Renz: 'No po 'yan?
Lola: Ang tawag dito ay "Food for the Gods"
Renz: Bigyan mo si Mama mo dun sa labas.
(Renz goes out, bringing the cake outside)
Renz: Mama O!
DH : Ano 'yan?
(Renz, trying so hard to recall)
Renz: Ano po 'yan... hmmm... "Good for the Bad"!

Sick!

What a shitty week that was! I was having this cold for a week. And the office? Ugh. Just need to keep the sense of humor intact.

Foundation Day at LaCo
Too bad we didn't get to LaCo in time for Sandra's number for their foundation day, "Polka sa Nayon" last Saturday. It was a double whammy when we found out they even won the Overall Championship. Anyway, we had to content ourselves with taking Sandra's pic with the trophy. Funny though, when I asked the kids to pose with their adviser, another parent of one of the kids came rushing to take a photo too. Apparently, the winners were just recently announced.


Later in the afternoon, Sandra and Renz won for themselves Php700 and it was just for singing Baltimora's "Tarzan Boy". Tita Ella had a Housewarming event and there was a videoke. An elderly gentleman offered Php500 to anyone who can get a score of 97 from the machine. After 10 singers who all had good scores (some higher than 97), it was only the duet of Dada and Renz who managed to get the exact score! They were all amused by the tandem and so the gentleman gave Renz Php200 as a bonus. Wow, Dada, this was YOUR day! Pa-blowout naman!

On the homefront. I caught this little boy sleeping on the floor.


Tita Gay bought a red toy for Sandra. It is a knock-off of the popular Tamagochi. I wondered how much it was while looking at the package.

Dyok Taym!
Me: Magkano kaya ito?
Renz: Sa "pesos" po? Alam ko po.
Me: O, talaga? Magkano?
(Renz, looking at the package's back)
Renz: Eto po, 4 pesos.
Me: 4 pesos?! Ang mura naman!
Renz: Ay, ano po... 5 pesos.
Me: 5 pesos? Bakit ang mura?
Still incredulous, I looked at the back of the carton and discovered that there were 5 models of the toy. The black version was labeled "1". The blue one labeled "2", the green was "3". Labeled "4" and "5" had red colors.